Welcome to my Reflections

What if healing isn’t about becoming whole, but about remembering that we already are? I’ve been sitting with this question since writing She Who Is Never Not Broken. That piece began with Akhilandeshwari — “she who is never not broken” — and the possibility that healing doesn’t lead us towards some final state of wholeness. That […]

During my recovery I came across the Hindu goddess Akhilandeshwari. One interpretation of her name is, “She who is never not broken.” It became the starting point for a reflection on healing, growth, wholeness and the myth that one day we’ll finally arrive.

There’s a difference between understanding something and actually experiencing it. When something becomes lived, you no longer need to take someone else’s word for it. You know it directly. Lately, what I’ve spent years exploring with my mind has started to show up more strongly as something I can feel. That shift is what moved […]

Four hours on the road today, just me and my active mind.It never stops inquiring — always searching for the pattern beneath the story, the meaning behind the moment, the source of it all. My discerning, curious mind has been such a loyal companion. It protects, questions, analyses, and ensures I feel safe and live […]

Have you ever felt like you’re standing in the hallway of your own life — one door closing, another not yet open — and you don’t know which way to turn?That’s not failure or confusion. It’s the liminal zone — the space between identities, where the old is falling away and the new hasn’t yet […]

Understanding the States of Consciousness A number of years ago while part of a Coaches Rising course, I came across talk by Jim Dethmer on the 4 states of consciousness. He offered a version of this profound age-old wisdom on how we see life and therefore how we experience it. We are constantly moving between […]

Introduction: Expanding Capacity for Personal and Professional Growth In our earlier years, we focus on acquiring skills and capabilities to help us succeed in life. As I developed as a leader and human being, I realised that at some point, the growth slowed. The more knowledge I accumulated no longer brought the success I was […]

Embracing Transitions as Invitations for Growth With autumn arriving, I feel the invitation to share the beauty and power of transitions. Nature teaches us this beautifully. Rather than rushing from one season to the next, we pass through autumn into our inner winter. This is a time for stillness, to reflect on what’s happening within […]